Sex on the first date?
Checking up on my favorite gossip sites, I came across this interview with Stacy Dash about her new reality show (who cares) and her relationship with Jamie Foxx (no really, who cares?).
The fact that she's been engaged 6 times, and divorced 3 is crazy but lets talk about sex. Chilling with a friend, just drinking and getting to know each other. We wanted to play a drinking game, but with only 2 ppl and no cards we couldn't play any of my favorite games. So we decided on "I've Never" which was coo cause it gave us a chance to get to know each other and low key be nosey. So not to drag this out, he said "I've never, had sex on the first date." and that led to a big debate about how males and females think differently regarding the situation. He feels that it's no big deal because, we're grown so why play games. A person knows right away after meeting someone if they want and or can see themselves having sex with someone so why play the good role and hold out. Whether you have sex, on day one or months later in the end you've had sex. He has a point and I respect his opinion, however I feel that with females its basically about having a conscious. Some females wouldn't think twice about having sex on the first date or with multiple people. While others may do it, and later regret it and its forever in the back of their mind. "I had sex with him too soon; am I a ho? does he feel differently about me? where do we go from now?"
Another question was, what exactly qualifies as a first date?
Basically whats the difference between going home from the club with someone, and
chilling for the first time (outside of the club) which could be the next day!
I hope this all makes sense.
It was a good conversation, we both ended up falling asleep while watching "The Hangover."
Alcohol is not my thing too much, I prefer L's any day to drinking.
WW: You’ve been engaged six times and married three? You think that one of your problems is having sex too early, first date status.
SD: You know what happened is I slept with all of my husbands on the first date, they said, ‘Marry me’ and I said, ‘Yes!’ So there you go.
WW: So have you had sex with Jamie Foxx?
SD: No.
WW: Why? That was the first date.
SD: No, no I’m not doing that anymore.
via (theybf.com)
The fact that she's been engaged 6 times, and divorced 3 is crazy but lets talk about sex. Chilling with a friend, just drinking and getting to know each other. We wanted to play a drinking game, but with only 2 ppl and no cards we couldn't play any of my favorite games. So we decided on "I've Never" which was coo cause it gave us a chance to get to know each other and low key be nosey. So not to drag this out, he said "I've never, had sex on the first date." and that led to a big debate about how males and females think differently regarding the situation. He feels that it's no big deal because, we're grown so why play games. A person knows right away after meeting someone if they want and or can see themselves having sex with someone so why play the good role and hold out. Whether you have sex, on day one or months later in the end you've had sex. He has a point and I respect his opinion, however I feel that with females its basically about having a conscious. Some females wouldn't think twice about having sex on the first date or with multiple people. While others may do it, and later regret it and its forever in the back of their mind. "I had sex with him too soon; am I a ho? does he feel differently about me? where do we go from now?"
Another question was, what exactly qualifies as a first date?
Basically whats the difference between going home from the club with someone, and
chilling for the first time (outside of the club) which could be the next day!
I hope this all makes sense.
It was a good conversation, we both ended up falling asleep while watching "The Hangover."
Alcohol is not my thing too much, I prefer L's any day to drinking.
