20100318

"Real bitches fuck with me...
..and I don't give a fuck who don't!"
Can't wait to see the outcome.
Peep my husband, ooo lawd.

20100315

Grind time..
Spring break is over, and mine was pretty much nonexistent. Miami was mos def calling my name, things just weren't in my favor I guess. I pretty much chilled around and worked the entire break. One thing I know for sure is that things mos def have to start looking up. I have 2mths of school left, which means 2mths to grind and save $$$ so that I'm comfortable in my own space for the summer.I don't understand how ppl, can be okay with being broke. Unless you're living the good life and someone else is taking care of your responsibilities, what is your purpose?! I'm more than likely going to quit my current job, because its a conflict of interest with the new one and try to land a night shift job...
Bills and addictions aren't going to handle themselves!
Sex on the first date?
Checking up on my favorite gossip sites, I came across this interview with Stacy Dash about her new reality show (who cares) and her relationship with Jamie Foxx (no really, who cares?).
WW: You’ve been engaged six times and married three? You think that one of your problems is having sex too early, first date status.
SD: You know what happened is I slept with all of my husbands on the first date, they said, ‘Marry me’ and I said, ‘Yes!’ So there you go.
WW: So have you had sex with Jamie Foxx?
SD: No.
WW: Why? That was the first date.
SD: No, no I’m not doing that anymore.
via (theybf.com

The fact that she's been engaged 6 times, and divorced 3 is crazy but lets talk about sex. Chilling with a friend, just drinking and getting to know each other. We wanted to play a drinking game, but with only 2 ppl and no cards we couldn't play any of my favorite games. So we decided on "I've Never"  which was coo cause it gave us a chance to get to know each other and low key be nosey. So not to drag this out, he said "I've never, had sex on the first date." and that led to a big debate about how males and females think differently regarding the situation. He feels that it's no big deal because, we're grown so why play games. A person knows right away after meeting someone if they want and or can see themselves having sex with someone so why play the good role and hold out. Whether you have sex, on day one or months later in the end you've had sex. He has a point and I respect his opinion, however I feel that with females its basically about having a conscious. Some females wouldn't think twice about having sex on the first date or with multiple people. While others may do it, and later regret it and its forever in the back of their mind. "I had sex with him too soon; am I a ho? does he feel differently about me? where do we go from now?"
Another question was, what exactly qualifies as a first date?
Basically whats the difference between going home from the club with someone, and
chilling for the first time (outside of the club) which could be the next day!
I hope this all makes sense.
It was a good conversation, we both ended up falling asleep while watching "The Hangover."
Alcohol is not my thing too much, I prefer L's any day to drinking.




20100312

Lady G & Honey B - Telephone
Telephone - Lady Gaga ft. Beyonce
This is my 100th post, and I wanted to post something 100th mark worthy.
I've been seeing stills from this video all week, and didn't think much of it but hoooney this video is giving me life or as the atl folk say shawty it was a MOOVIE lol jk. From the jail house scene (that bad ass jailbird dress, addressing the dick rumors and the overall fashion.) If I get to dress like that in prison, lock me up!
I've only heard the song one other time, and I have nothing bad to say; I like it.
This is one video, I could watch over and over and never get tired of seeing.
Why can't artist give us shit like this on a daily!